Author: Kiyoka

  • Quick Pre-Fall ‘25 Wish List

    Quick Pre-Fall ‘25 Wish List

    I spent some time browsing brands fall edits and here’s a quick roundup of what I’ve added to my wish list.

    You know I love a flesh-toned shoe. I can’ help it. Last year, I wanted a slingback flat and couldn’t find one that worked. I have these Mary Jane’s in black leather from last fall/winter.

    There’s clearly a pattern here. No pun intended. I love herringbone and houndstooth. I wish this coat was floor length.

    The true is I’m trying to pair down my wardrobe. I shouldn’t need to add much, if anything. I have so much that I don’t wear already. Of all of these things, the slingbacks and the coat are likely to end up in my closet, but I’m trying to hold off for a sale. Furthermore, it’s just pre-fall. Who knows what the coming weeks have in store.

    -k

  • Hello…

    Long time, no see. It’s been awhile since I visited this space, but I missed it.

    It’s a transitional time and fashion has been on my brain since last weekend. There’s something about fall that just does it for me.

    One of the first things I saw when I woke up this morning was an ad and it got me to thinking about my personal style at this stage in life. I’m late, but I think I’m just shedding an old image of myself, one that physically faded long ago, but mentally I still saw myself as that girl, “The Limited Girl.” Thing is, I’m not a “career girl” anymore. Sure, my career is still a very important part of my life, but I’ve evolved significantly and so should the image that I have of myself.

    For quite some time I’ve defined my style as elevated ease. I like simple, classic things, but well made as best as I can afford. I don’t like a lot of frills, bells and whistles. Not too long ago, there was that wear vs. styling challenge that influencers were doing. I’m a wearer and for that reason I feel like the clothes themselves have to make the statement by way of tailoring and quality.

    I’ve been looking at fall fashion most of the day. I didn’t really want to buy anything, just browsing. There are still major gaps in plus size fashion. That elevated and effortless look just has not materialized. Much of plus size fashion is trendy and youthful. It lacks the breadth of the straight sized world. But also plus size itself is too broad covering everything from a size 12 and up. If you are on the large end of the spectrum, you’ll be bombarded with brands included in plus size, but that don’t carry your size.

    Anyway, that’s just a little of what I spent the day musing over.

    When I started this page, I thoroughly enjoyed making the videos. I’d like to take another stab at it, but this time on YouTube. You can find me @curvyplusstyle. I’ll continue to do brand reviews of those expanding into plus and sharing about my experience with fashion for the pear-shaped plus size woman.

    See you soon!

    -k

  • Love and Style

    Love and Style

    While I have been unattached and not looking to mingle for a long time, I have been spending some time thinking about what I want long term. I’ve never wanted to be married. I’ve never wanted to be a mother. These things make dating…interesting. I’m also not sure about living with another person. I have lived alone since I was 17 with the exception of two semesters with roommates in college and a couple of stints back home after college. But more importantly, how do you manage having a life with someone else and your own life? I think this is the bigger concern. I’m very independent. I enjoy solo living. I’m not fearful of commitment. I don’t want to commit. I don’t mean that as in I want to be with multiple people at once. I don’t. I mean it as in when I’m with someone it’s because I want to be with them in that moment. I don’t know what I’ll want in one, five, or twenty years. If I want something else, I want to be able to pursue it. I just think that forever is unreal.

    Anyway, Valentine’s Day is Wednesday. There’s no need to wait until you have a partner to enjoy a commercial holiday. If your friends have other plans, that shouldn’t be a reason to not do something that you want to do. What I’m trying to say is – enjoy your own company. Go buy yourself some good chocolates. Have drinks or dinner at the new spot you’ve been eyeing. If you want to celebrate, don’t let anything stop you. If you don’t want to celebrate, don’t. It’s just that simple.

    I don’t own much red or pink. I’m more understated than overt and I’m not ultra feminine. Here are some looks I would don for V-Day.

  • Brand Review: Universal Standard

    Brand Review: Universal Standard

    Universal Standard Back In Stock email

    One of the primary reasons I started this blog was to review brands that carry larger sizes. There are so many new brands and so many established brands that are attempting to accommodate larger sizes and I wanted to know how they hold up and share that information. Universal Standard (US) is not new, but not old. I don’t recall how I learned about Universal Standard, but I remember the first piece of their clothing that caught my eye - The Tresa Wide Leg Tie Pant. I loved the caramel color and the wide leg. They were $148 and out of budget, but I put pants and US on my wish/watch list. Fast forward just a few short years and I’ve shopped with them a fair amount. I’ve bought jeans, trousers, dresses, sweaters and a leather jacket. Here’s what I think of the brand.

    Collection – I’ve long hoped for a brand that focuses on quality workwear and basics. For at least the last decade, plus size fashion has screwed on the trendy side. I’m a classic, essentials kind of girl. This is the space where Universal Standard is leading. They offer suiting separates for those who still need business attire as well as denim and leisure wear. It’s not that other brands don’t offer workwear and basics. It’s a matter of quality, age suitability, and modernness. Neutral colors make up the bulk of the color palette. It’s not a place where you’ll find bright colors and prints. The colors that they do use are often understated and sometimes the photos don’t capture the colors well.

    Fit – I can say that I haven’t totally figured out the sizing. My first purchase was the Carrie High Rise Wide Leg Jeans. I used the size chart to fit my hip and bought a 26-28. It was huge. The jeans have a lot of stretch and are also wide leg. I exchanged for a 22-24 and still had to have the waist altered, but these trouser jeans are my favorite for an elevated denim look. The second time I bought denim was the Donna High Rise Straight Leg Jean. I again used the size chart. I purchased a size 28 to fit my hip and because these were straight leg jeans so I figured I needed my true size. Nope! I had to exchange these twice and ended up with a size 22. At this point, I figured my Universal Standard size was a 22 and I used that when I bought the Chloe Crewneck Sweater. I love the sweater, but they fit too tight in the arms and shoulder.

    When considering fit, I don’t rely strictly on the size chart because the material and cut of the item matters, but I’m still trying to hone in on my sizing at US.

    Price Point – Whether or not clothing is affordable is subjective. Most of my US purchases are discounted because it was on sale, marked down for final sale, birthday discount, price adjustment, or something else. I think the price point matches the quality. I feel comfortable with the price point at US on items like pullover sweaters, jeans, and trousers; however, there are other things, like T-shirts, that I do not feel comfortable with the price point. I can’t pay $50 for a basic tee. I can’t do it. My most extravagant purchase is from US: a brown leather moto jacket. 🤤

    Size Availability – If you are familiar with US, then you know that this is their motto. They go up to size 40. They brand themselves as the most size inclusive brand, although, I have seen complaints from petites. I would love to see a graphic representation of their actual customers. I wonder if plus size women shop with them more than standard size?

    Sales/Discounts – I mentioned this a bit in the price point section. In my opinion, US doesn’t have many “deep” sales (Ex. 50% off everything). Discount codes are incredibly rare. They tend to fall more on the limited time only marked down on a specific item (ex. Ponte pants was $95, now $65). I have found it difficult to catch the deep discounts (usually final sale) before my size is sold out (ex. dresses $25). I’m no longer an email subscriber so that could be part of it.

    Returns / Exchanges – As I’ve mentioned, I’ve done plenty of exchanges and returns. Unlike a lot of brands, exchanges are available online and are free. I typically use happy returns for US. There is a processing fee for returns. I don’t know if it varies, but mine was $4.50. US previously had a try before you buy service, but I haven’t seen it in a while so it may not exist anymore.

    Shopping Experience – US doesn’t have brick and mortar stores, but they do offer pop-ups in select cities. Last year, they did 3-4 in my city. Usually, they rent a house in an upscale area and you schedule time to visit. I did’t attend the pop-ups because they were immediately after I made a large purchase from them. The timing was not in line with my shopping and I didn’t want to go to browse. I would like to attend one in the future and hope that they continue to offer in-person options.

    My online shopping experience has been just fine. For the most part, my size is stocked. They offer the opportunity to be notified when an out of stock item is restocked. Because their clothing is mostly classics, they tend to keep items for much longer than a lot of brands / retailers. The Carrie jeans are still available three years after I bought them.

    Overall, I really enjoy shopping with US. I remember during COVID and all of the supply chain issues, I was scared that another more established plus size brand would go out of business. I remember wondering what I would do because they were the only brand that had business wear that fit well on me. I feel a lot less vulnerable with US around. I’m looking forward to seeing US get better and better. While I wouldn’t consider myself a “luxury” girl, I would like to see them add other fabrics such as silk or cashmere (they may have done this). They’re leather was 👌🏾. I also would like to see bold color. Most importantly, we need brick and mortar in the plus size space and US could be the one to do it well.

    Top (Left to Right): Eco Everyday Sweater dress, Leeron Leather Moto Jacket. Bottom (Left to Right): Renee Raglan Turtleneck Sweater, Carrier High Rise Wide Leg Jean.

  • Personalizing My Style

    Personalizing My Style

    I was in the market for a new black blazer. I figured Good American would be a great place because the Kardashians were once known for wearing great blazers.

    I came across this Ponte knit blazer at Good American.

    Good American Ponte Double Breasted Blazer

    I knew I loved the double-breast and the square/straight hem. The jacket comes with fancy gold buttons. I liked them, but my intention was for this to be an everyday blazer and those buttons were not what I wanted to wear everyday.

    I immediately started looking for buttons for replacement. I decided I wanted to go for an all black look. I found these buttons at JoAnn’s. I wasn’t able to find smaller companion buttons for the sleeves so I decided to remove the sleeve buttons which is fine since the jacket has zipper openings on the sleeve.

    Buttons from Joann’s

    Last week, I took the jacket and buttons to my tailor and I picked it up today. I’m please with the monochromatic look, but I’m also happy with the bit of razzle dazzle these buttons give the blazer.

    Same blazer with new buttons

    I get clothes altered all the time, but this is the first time I did something creative and personal with my clothing, rather than just a functional need like hemming or tailoring the waist of pants. I’m already thinking about other more creative ways that I can use my tailor to personalize my clothing.

  • Celebrating Three Months of Blogging

    Celebrating Three Months of Blogging

    Today I am celebrating three months of blogging and I am so thrilled.

    The first time I wanted to create a blog was in 2012. I wanted to create a career blog. I remember being so hung up on the name including the word savvy. Over the next twelve years, I have started so many blogs and never fully executed them for the same reasons. I don’t want to post everyday. I don’t like taking photos. I’m definitely not taking selfies in public. I don’t want to pick just one thing to write about. I bought books and read so many articles about blogging.

    This time, I finally stopped overthinking it or trying to keep up with what I see. That is the key to my consistency. I’m just doing it. I’m not looking followers. I’m not trying to make photos and videos look perfect. I’m just leaning into the realness which is what I’ve always wanted to do and I love it. This is my time and space to express myself.

    Most of those previous blogs were not fashion/style blogs. I struggle with photos and videos of me all over the internet. There’s something vain about it and I’ll always struggle with that part of it. But it’s also somewhat frivolous and that’s what I think I’m enjoying most. I’m a very earnest person and frivolity is not usually my thing. I am certainly not without personality, but this is a way to lighten up.

    The one thing that I’ve always promised is that I didn’t want to give people advice because you don’t need my advice. That continues to be true. I’m sharing my experiences with fashion and sharing my style.

    Thus far, the only challenge I’ve run into is only writing about fashion and style. I have already had days where I feel like I don’t have anything to write about and have thought about expanding my subject. I just don’t want to do too much too soon so I’m stick to my single subject and see how far I go.

    Frankly, I don’t have any expectations and I’m very pleased with what I’ve created so far. I’m looking forward to the next three, six months.

    I always say if you have found me, welcome. If you have been enriched, you are welcome. Thanks for stopping by.

    K

  • Paige Denim

    Paige Denim

    While perusing Anthropologie’s plus size clothing, I ran across a pair of jeans from Paige Denim. I’ve certainly heard of Paige denim, but I’ve never looked at them because I didn’t think they carried plus size. I don’t pay much attention to straight size fashion trends and brands. I added them to my wish list, but knew I wasn’t about to pay $229 for them. A few days later, I decided to google them and found them on Paige’s website site for $90. Of course I signed up for text and got the additional 15% so I paid $81 for a pair of $229 jeans. Score! The catch? They were final sale with no exchanges or returns allowed. I took a chance. That’s the second time in a week that I’ve googled a product and found it cheaper. It’s becoming apart of my shopping strategy.

    Anyway, what drew me to these jeans is the way they were styled. On the Anthropologie site, they have a crease in the jeans which make them look sleeker and I love that. I think I just stumbled onto a style secret for myself. By the way, remember in the 90s how we always starched and creased our jeans? Good ole’ days.

    Anthropologie Screenshot

    The jeans arrived today and they are pretty good. There’s a lot of stretch in these jeans. Since they are wide leg jeans, I sized down to a size 22. I think I could have worn a 20. I love the cut and the raw hem. They are high-waisted which is my favorite. My only issue is with the rise of the jeans. If you are shaped like me, with a smaller waist, broad hips, big thighs, but very little stomach, you’ll be familiar with the issue of excess fabric in the crotch. The plus size industry has always used the apple shape as the model for clothing. I often have the issue of excess space in the crotch and lower stomach area. I haven’t verified this, but I’m sure it’s more common than the pear shape and that’s why there’s the assumption in sizing that a large waist/hip equates to a large stomach. For me, that’s not the case. I’m the opposite.

    I look forward to styling these for spring.

  • Civics

    Civics

    Today is Martin Luther King, Jr. Day. I observe it as a day of rest rather than a day of service, but I couldn’t let the day go by without some words on engagement.

    Remember two things,

    #1: You choose your engagement style. Most people took a basic civics course in high school, but have no idea how to continue their education and engagement beyond voting. Maybe you’re not the protest type. Maybe you are short on experience in dealing with policymakers. There are so many ways to engage. Find the one that works best for you, like Toni Morrison and Cicely Tyson.

    “I’m not out on the street protesting. What can I do from where I am? I thought it was important for people to be in the streets but they couldn’t last. You needed a record. It would be my job to publish the voices, the ideas of African Americans. That would last.”

    Toni Morrison, The Pieces I Am

    “Never once, during the billowing smoke of the Civil Rights Movement would I be spotted at a Woolworth lunch counter, braving a sit-in while hate-mongers hurled spit and spite. Never would I parade up and down the boulevards of Selma or Montgomery, a picket sign thrust high alongside my shouts. I admire the valiant freedom fighters who took to the streets, but it wasn’t in my makeup to demonstrate in those ways. Nonetheless, I was set on speaking in the only place I felt courageous enough to do so – on the stage. I protested by using not my own words, but those of the characters I inhabited.”

    Cicely Tyson, Just As I Am

    #2: You don’t have to make a public statement about anything. You don’t owe anyone proof of your advocacy.

  • My Signature Style: Wide-Leg Pants

    My Signature Style: Wide-Leg Pants

    I think I fell in love with wide-leg pants in the mid 2000s. I recall being inspired by Traci Ellis Ross whom I often saw donning them in pictures and it was always a chic look. Since that time, they have become a personal style staple.

    Wide-leg pants give a subtle drama that speaks to me on such a personal level. I’m a pretty understated person and generally don’t like to bring attention to myself. But it’s the silhouette – the synched waist, the billowy leg skimming the floor, the movement of fabric, the vintage vibes. It’s unmatched.

    When I first fell in love with them, skinny pants were all the rage. I haven’t been skinny since college and wide-leg pants were a stylish alternative which was and still is better.

  • Style Strategy 2024

    Style Strategy 2024

    Bottom Line Upfront: I’ll be shopping my closet and wearing what I already own.

    Three years ago I moved to a new city with very few clothes. I’ve been rebuilding my wardrobe since the move and nearly everything I own was bought within the last three years. I’ve done some significant shopping. I’ve shopped so much that I’m actually sick of shopping. One of the downsides of all of this shopping is that I’ve been impatient and have purchased “stand-in” pieces when I couldn’t find what I truly wanted and didn’t want to wait. Then a month or so later, I found what I wanted. So I have a few things that I know I’m not going to wear and I want to get rid of them. On the positive side, my foundational wardrobe is in tack. I was very hesitant to buy color, pattern, texture, etc. until after I had the essentials. But while I’m in a very good place with essentials, my wardrobe is lacking personality. So if and when I do make purchases this year, it will be a couple of fun pieces.

    The most important thing I plan to do is get dressed whether going out or staying in. Many people can probably relate, but being on lockdown during COVID and working for home has created a situation where I rarely get dressed. Most days I’m in the same lounge wear. Late last year, my organization began a hybrid return to work. Presently, I go into the office two days a week and those are the only days I get dressed unless I have to go out on weekends and even then its lounge wear. It doesn’t make sense that I’ve bought all of these clothes and don’t wear them. I love working for home and have decided to treat it like the office and get dressed. I don’t need an in-person meeting to put on that blazer I’m currently loving. To help me get back into the groove, I purchased an over the door hook so that I can pull together outfits in advance. I’m not normally a “get your clothes out the night before” kind of person, but I think this will help with follow-through. By now we all know that you don’t need to save you “good clothes.” Anytime is a good time.

    That’s the plan for 2024. Simple. I have other big things happening this year and this is how I’m staying focused on what’s most important.